Whos Packing Your Parachute?

I just heard a marvelous talk on KBYU by Mervlyn Kitashima, American Mother of the Year 2003. She quoted this story:

Charles Plum, a U.S. Naval Academy graduate, was a jet fighter pilot in Vietnam. After 75 combat missions, his plane was destroyed by a surface-to-air missile. Plumb ejected and parachuted into enemy hands. He was captured and spent six years in a Communist prison. He survived that ordeal and now lectures about lessons learned from that experience.

One day, when Plumb and his wife were sitting in a restaurant, a man at another table came up and said, “You’re Plumb! You flew jet fighters in Vietnam from the aircraft carrier Kitty Hawk. You were shot down!”

“How in the world did you know that?” asked Plumb.

“I packed your parachute,” the man replied. Plumb gasped I nsurprise and gratitude. The man pumped his hand and said, “I guess it worked!”

Plumb assured him, “It sure did—if your chute hadn’t worked, I wouldn’t be here today.”

Plumb couldn’t sleep that night, thinking about that man. Plumb says, “I kept wondering what he might have looked like in a Navy uniform – a Dixie cup hat, a bib in the back, and bell bottom trousers. I wondered how many times I might have passed him on the Kitty Hawk. AI wondered how many times I might have seen him and not even said ’Good morning, how are you,’ or anything because, you see, I was a fighter pilot and he was just a sailor.”

Plumb thought of the many hours the sailor had spent on a long wooden table in the bowels of the ship carefully weaving the shrouds and folding the silks of each chute, holding in his hands each time the fate of someone he didn’t know.

Now, Plumb asks his audience, “Who’s packing your parachute? Everyone has someone who provides what they need to make it through the day.” Plumb also points out that he needed many kinds of parachutes when his plane was shot down over enemy territory—he needed his physical parachute, his mental parachute, his emotional parachute, and his spiritual parachute. He called on all these supports before reaching safety. His experience reminds us all to prepare ourselves to weather whatever storms lie ahead. Recognize and be gracious to people who pack your daily parachutes, and strengthen yourself to prevail through tough times.

-Charles Plum

She continued on in her talk about the people who had packed her parachute. She came from a very poor family, an alcoholic father and an inattentive mother. Her grandmother was her childhood parachute packer- she loved her and made her feel worthy of love. It was a very tender message and really got me thinking about the many people and experiences in my life that have packed my parachutes. Mother, grandmother, siblings, missionaries, teachers, friends, husband, children, bad times and good...I'm so grateful for each of them! Anyway, had to share.. Hope it will give you something to think about too.